Which gender is to blame?

ok so we all know that women and men truly cant get along all the times because there are the girls that made us guys the way we are(heartless dogs only wanting sex). Then there are the women that chase guys with money so they never have to work again. sometimes at heart we truly want to be nice to each other but there was always someone who made us the way we are.Who do you think is to blame for all of this, shouldnt society and school teach us how to interact well with others and to not take our anger out on someone else and in turn, turning them into a monster?